Tuesday, November 8, 2011

Build Self-Confidence in 5 easy steps...


1> Take action. Get it done.
Just take action. Work on something and get it done. Sitting and thinking about a problem will just make you feel worse. Simple.  Be present. Lighten up. Really, really want it. 


2> Face your fear. Just do it. 
You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience. You must do the thing you think you cannot do. Be curious. Realize that fear is often based on wrong  interpretation. 


You get the courage AFTER you do it, not before you do it. When you do things you build confidence in your ability to handle different situations. You also take shaky situations more and more normal in your life. 


4> Prepare & Practice
Make google your best friend. Prepare & Practice - and you will feel more comfortable and confident. Just don’t make the mistake of getting stuck in the preparation phase. Prepare and Practice - Prepare and Practice...


5> Failure or being wrong will not kill you.
Try it. Failure won’t kill you. Nor will being wrong. The sky will not fall down. Advantages of taking action - You learn. You gain experiences you could not get any other way. You become stronger. and Your chances of succeeding increases.

People really don’t care that much about what you do. They have their own life, problems and worries that the world revolves around them to focus on. They don’t think that much about you or are constantly monitoring what you do wrong or when you fail.


6> Know who you are and what you want out of life.
When you know more about who you are and what you want out of life – not other people say you want – you will have more confidence in yourself and what you can do.

What other people say or think will have less of an impact than it used to because you know who you are better than they do.

Confidence is everything!!!