What do you see around you???

What do you see in everyday - every moment??

What do you see in everything - every person - around you??

What do you see in every problem??

What is the problem???

The problem with our lives that everything (including our mind) is so complicated and full of twists - we are bombarded with so much of information that we don't use even 10% of it. We have so much to think - remember - be afraid of...... that we cant focus on the right things.... so what do we do????

Are we at the wrong place???

Where should we be???

It is simple. 

10 Things we should learn from Japan

Friends - in the recent times (and several times in the past) Japan - has been destroyed to zero - and they have come back much stronger every time - all this with dignity, love and respect for each other. 

Lets learn from the following and make our world gentler and kinder for each other... (this reminds me of what guruji has been teaching me for so many years...)

Have I given 100 percent of my time and talents today?

But how do you know what is your 100%???

Where is the Opportunity???

"Opportunity often comes in the form of misfortune, or temporary defeat."
 

"Learn to listen. Opportunity could be knocking at your door very softly."

 "In the middle of difficulty lies opportunity."

Slow day??? Feel Tired??? Don't feel much like working???

So what do you do?

Friends - here is my trustworthy three step strategy for doing something even if I don't feel like doing it from the back of my mind...

Don't like your job???

Don't like your job?? the job profile?? the people?? process?? culture?? boss?? colleagues?? systems?? decision making?? infrastructure?? rules??.....

Are you not trying because you are afraid of Failing???

Friends - Failure or being wrong will not kill you!!!

Are your action, behavior and decisions - controlled by some FEAR???

Ask yourself - Observe yourself - Try to understand your mind - why it acts, behaves and decides in a particular way???

Your FEAR - is your enemy  No.1 - it will stop your growth - stop positive thoughts and action - destroy your relationships & career...

So what should we do???

How to understand the real YOU or the REAL others???

Friends - my guruji has given me one mantra to recognize the people (and yourself):

16 things..... PART 8 (Last part)

Friends - Till now we read about the first 14 things...
(List at the end of this article...)

Today let's see the last 2...

16 things..... PART 7 (Last part tomorrow)

Friends - Till now we read about the first 12 things...
(List at the end of this article...)

Today let's see the next 2...

16 things..... PART 6

Friends - Till now we read about the first 10 things...
1. The 80/20 rule. 2. Parkinson's Law.
3. Batching. 4. First, give value. Then, get value.
5. Be proactive. Not reactive. 6. Mistakes and failures are good.
7. Don't beat yourself up. 8. Assume rapport.
9. Use your reticular activation system to your advantage. 10. Your attitude changes your reality.

Today let's see the next 2...

16 things I wish they had taught me in school (or I just would like to have known earlier in my life) - PART 5

Friends - Till now we read about the first 8 things...

1. The 80/20 rule. 2. Parkinson's Law.

3. Batching. 4. First, give value. Then, get value.  

5. Be proactive. Not reactive. 6. Mistakes and failures are good.

 7. Don't beat yourself up. 8. Assume rapport. 

Today let's see the next 2... 

16 things I wish they had taught me in school (or I just would like to have known earlier in my life)... PART 3

Till now we read about the first 4 things...

1. The 80/20 rule.

2. Parkinson's Law.

3. Batching.

4. First, give value. Then, get value.  

Today let's see the next 2... 

16 things.... Part 2

16 things I wish they had taught me in school (or I just would like to have known earlier in my life)...

Yesterday we read about the first 2 things...

1. The 80/20 rule.

2. Parkinson's Law.

Today let's see the next 2...

16 things I wish they had taught me in school (or I just would like to have known earlier in my life)...

I am 43 now. I don't think about the past or regret things much.

But sometimes I wish that I had known some of things I have learned over the last few years a bit earlier.

Say "Hi" to Life :) **Slightly long - but i am taking a break till 9th so see u on 10th - you can read this one at least thrice

Friends - we have read in the past 3 days - how  life can be enjoyed and it can be simple. I am sure after going thru and practicing all these six things - you will ask yourself:

How many true relationships do you have???

All of us have trouble forming real relationships. The fear and the doubt and second guessing always seem to intrude on our ability to live in the moment and truly embrace our friends and family. 

Just do it!!

I have recently started focusing on my health. For a workaholic person like me - giving time to health was something I have always wanted to do but due to laziness and well a belief, that I couldn’t, I until recently never dreamed I would.