Winning is NOT everything!!!

Winning is not important... Participation is more important... Learning & experience from participating  is everything... Results don't matter... Efforts matter...

Friends - good things to talk - BUT in this GHOOOR KALYUG...

Why Smart People Do Stupid Things Sometimes???

We interact with various kinds of people everyday - your spouse, parents, friends , relations, colleagues ... 

Among these people, there are few who you really admire. They are SMARTER then others. When these smart people do stupid things - you might get annoyed, frustrated or even loose your temper.
Lets look at possible reasons...

10 Stupid things...

Friends - whether it is a parents-child relationship or employer-employee or husband-wife or any business or personal relationships - we grow and achieve ONLY through a relationship in life - BUT the biggest mistakes we do in life are also relationship mistakes.

Below is a list of major relationship mistakes we all have made / make - at some point of time...

Are you Stupid???

Have you ever tried being STUPID???
Have you ever planned to do STUPID things???

Never!!! 
Try it - you will enjoy it - Let me help you...

jab raat hai itni matwali - to subah ka aalam kya hoga!!! look at his energy and action after the winning run... mohali here we come :)

Please don't DIM the LIGHTS....

A genuine sense of happiness and joy... enthusiasm that emanates... confidence in one’s unique expression...
a natural glow... the shine of their inner light...

Do you want to be like that???

Only Selfish and Self-Centered people try to make themselves Happier!!

In a world so full of suffering, you can be happy only if you’re insensitive and self-centered.

Happy people become self-centered in their own pleasure; they’re complacent and uninterested in the world.
 

Right???

Have you ever had a big dream for your life – only to be told it’s not possible?

What should you do...

When your hopes are dashed??? 

When people around you tell you you cannot do it??? 

When you feel tired of running towards your dream???

Here is what can help you...

Feeling Lonely on your journey of life???

no one with you??? no one believes in your plan??? no one is ready to take risk with you??? no one is ready to help / advise you

Don't worry!!! Here is the solution...

nothing is going to happen - unless....

Even though you may have a passion for what's most important, until you also believe that you can make a real difference in your life, and those around you, nothing's going to happen.

Nothing is produced, nor even attempted until you believe in yourself enough to transform your passion into action. To reach maximum productivity, your body, heart and mind must all enthusiastically say...

my eyes are wet - I am speechless - life's strange :(

this is the first time i have uploaded a video 

(you can experience this even if your audio is not working)

Friends you have to watch this.....

What are you going to do with your life?

In one way or another people seems to be asking you this forever - teachers, parents, friends...

Friends - five thought-provoking quotes on this...

Your life at home or work is in mess?? you forget things?? making mistakes quite often???

You badly need to organize!!! You should know where everything is when you need and you shouldn't forget things most of the time.
 

So what's the secret? 

Tired of trying to SUCCEED???

Stop trying to Succeed - Start FAILING
Keep FAILING - Try to FAIL more - Make more mistakes... 

In fact - I recommend you to DOUBLE - TRIPLE your rate of trying to FAIL!!!

Few good thoughts...

"Always say thank you for all the things you asked for. They may be granted and sometimes not, but then, having a cool heart makes you think positive that they will be given to you at the right time."
 

I don't FEEL like doing it...

I've got lots of deadlines today, so much of pending work. I'm yawning just thinking about it. For some reason, even after I've had a full night's rest, I am getting sleepy. 

It's like my brain temporarily shuts off. 

What can be more dangerous than Smoking???

Uncontrolled - Drinking?? Drugs?? Driving??

Friends - everyone knows this - Few days back I read a recent study - that not only shocked me - but also changed the way I live...

The Elephant And The Fly....

A disciple and his teacher were walking through the forest. The disciple was disturbed by the fact that his mind was in constant unrest.

He asked his teacher, "Why most people's minds are restless, and only a few possess a calm mind? What can one do to still the mind?"

TARGETS = STRESS

- Targets push you into a pre-defined time-lines and achievement.
- Most of the times targets are impossible to achieve
- Targets are like exams

TARGETS are VERY BAD!!!
I HATE TARGETS :(

Comparison is Good or Bad???

Comparison is BAD - If you want to be happy you shouldn’t compare yourself to other people.

Right???

Today - think of someone...

Today - before you say or do anything - think of someone....

Even a mother feeds only the child that cries!!!!!

Have you ever heard this??? I am sure many times in life - I have...

But Friends - today's world is different - times have changed...

Do you Love your - Parents, Wife, Children, family, friends, pets???????

Yes????   

BIG Deal!!! :(  everyone does that - in fact even animals love their family & friends.

What is extraordinary in loving people you are emotionally / physically / socially / economically / professionally - dependent on / connected with...

Where do you focus???

On thinking about Solutions or thinking about Problems???

Do you believe that a problem is only temporary -- until you can figure out a solution?
Do you spend time in blaming -- or in finding a solution to the problem and try to prevent it from happening again?

If You've Got To Face The Music, Why Not Pick The Tunes?

Sharks are good!!!

Are you living your life peacefully - comfortably - autopilot - everything preplanned????

Are you like a fish in a fish tank??? no fears - no challenges - no problems - no threat - no excitement - jusssstttt living.....

Wake up!!!!! you are loosing the joy of living and growing!!!

Where "TALK" fails... "WALK" succeeds...

Friends - After so many years of experience in life I have realized how important it is to not only "talk my talk" but to truly "walk my walk".

If I expect people around me - to step outside their own comfort zones, set and accomplish their own intentions, then I have to do the same - myself first!

More success, More money, More love, More care, More fitness, More beauty, More companionship, More...., More...., More....

To achieve MORE you want to aggressively out-work, out-fail and out-persist everyone around you... You want to achieve it by doing… do, do, do.....

But Friends - unfortunately you can never multiply your income, your goal achievement and your results… by ONLY doing...

Hi I purchased a New shirt. How do you find it?

Wow! How much did you pay for this??

1200!!!

You could have purchased a new shirt in this cost!! :)

A school time joke - BUT seriously...
How would you react when someone asks your opinion about a new shirt which you find totally disgusting?