Tuesday, March 29, 2011

Why Smart People Do Stupid Things Sometimes???

We interact with various kinds of people everyday - your spouse, parents, friends , relations, colleagues ... 

Among these people, there are few who you really admire. They are SMARTER then others. When these smart people do stupid things - you might get annoyed, frustrated or even loose your temper.
Lets look at possible reasons...

#1 Emotions get in the way of logical thinking 

This is the battle between logic and emotion. Where, logic is derived out of smartness and emotions outshine the logic :)

#2 They react on Impact 

For example, immediate reaction to something you just heard.

#3 Ego

 When smart people feel their ego is endangered, they might say/do something stupid. For example, not admitting you are wrong even when you know you are wrong.

#4 Assumptions, Carelessness or Over-Confidence 

"I wish I took a back up, before PC crashed", to what does that belong? "I know for sure that this software will work, so I didn't test it"

#5 Self centered 

What I think, I want, My Needs. Aha, Needs. The root of all heartache!

#6 Fear

Doing something (stupid) out of fear.

#7 Deafness

 Failing to listen to people around them.

#9 Living in the NOW

Some decisions may be made based only on the present. Where as, it should have been made with the future in mind.

#10 Center stage with stupidity :-)

Even smart people are not perfect. 

We are all human. Sometimes mistakes do happen. If the person is humble, he/she will accept responsibility and apologize. Then, you really know the person is smart!