Wednesday, November 30, 2011

Be a Classy Person - part 3

Friends - I am sure your move towards being more classy has started well. I am sure you are aware that like all thing sin life - lifetime learning comes only through practice - practice - practice and more practice....

Step 1 > Treat others the way you would want to be treated.
Step 2 > Choose your battles, choose your friends.
Step 3 > Choose your words.
Step 4 > Do not insult, gossip, or slander.

Step 5 > Be independent. 

You must be courteous, but do not bend over backwards to please others. If you do, you may find yourself being taken advantage of in the future. Limit your time and availability and draw boundaries with others so that they are aware of your limits.

Step 6 > Break the stereotype shackles. 
More often than not, using labels in any way, whether to identify yourself or others shows a lack of creativity, lethargic social skills, and a lack of careful observation. Give everyone respect and the benefit of doubt.

Step 7 > Be balanced. Be assertive. 
Avoid passive-aggressive thinking; this is likely to trip you up eventually. Assertiveness demonstrates maturity, thoughtfulness, and confidence. Class requires balance, and assertiveness is a prime example of this concept.


Step 8 > Define yourself with a clean and elegant look. 
Excellent presentation is half of the battle. Wear clothing and accessories, which flatter your body and never wear anything you feel uncomfortable in. Wear a balanced smile always. 

continued...