Friends - If you want to learn about people - Don’t observe, see or listen - what they say - Just focus on what they do - and you will no their real beliefs - intentions - and their real-self.
If they charge for AMUL butter but use/mix local butter when the client isn't looking
If they snicker/change behind the people’s back
If they always act/speak thinking of – what others will think? / How they will react?
If they don't pay attention to or cut you short when you are talking to them
If they argue with a customer instead of delighting them
If they copy work and pass it as their own - take other people's credit
If they shade the truth a little - everytime
If they lobby to preserve the unsustainable status quo
If they network to get, not to give
If they do as little as they can get away with
...then you already know who they are.
Applies on you also – never forget – people (small or big / educated or uneducated / experienced or inexperienced) are evaluating you every time you act - and comparing your action/reactions with your words.
Don’t hide the truth…
People will know anyway…
Think before you speak - Let your action / reactions prove what you speak.
If they snicker/change behind the people’s back
If they always act/speak thinking of – what others will think? / How they will react?
If they don't pay attention to or cut you short when you are talking to them
If they argue with a customer instead of delighting them
If they copy work and pass it as their own - take other people's credit
If they shade the truth a little - everytime
If they lobby to preserve the unsustainable status quo
If they network to get, not to give
If they do as little as they can get away with
...then you already know who they are.
Applies on you also – never forget – people (small or big / educated or uneducated / experienced or inexperienced) are evaluating you every time you act - and comparing your action/reactions with your words.
Don’t hide the truth…
People will know anyway…
Think before you speak - Let your action / reactions prove what you speak.