Wednesday, June 1, 2011

How do you get along with people around you??? family?? friends?? colleagues??

10 Ways to Get along better with everyone...

1
Make promises sparingly and 
keep them faithfully
 
2
Never miss the opportunity to compliment or say something encouraging to someone
 
3
Cultivate your sense of humor; 
Laughter is the shortest distance between two people. 

4
Let your virtues (The quality of doing what is right and avoiding what is wrong) speak for themselves
 
5
Refuse to talk negatively about others; 
don't gossip and don't listen to gossip
 
6
Keep an open mind; discuss; 
do what you feel is right; but don't argue.

7
Have a forgiving view of people. 
Believe that most people are doing the best they can

8
If someone criticizes you, 
see if there is any truth to what he is saying; 
if so, make changes. 
if there is no truth to the criticism, ignore it and live so that no one will believe the negative remark

9
Forget about counting 10. 
Count to 1000 before doing or saying anything that could make matters worse 
(and hurt the other persons ego)

10
Before you say anything to anyone, 
ask yourself 3 things: 
1-is it true? 2-Is it kind? 3-is it necessary?


"Be the change you want to see 
in the world."

"Anger and intolerance 
are the enemies of 
correct understanding."

"Education is the ability to listen 
to almost anything 
without losing your temper or 
your self-confidence."

~Mahatma Gandhi