Think about it. What do you spend your energies on all the day??? and night???
Thinking about problems, troubles, negatives, ego issues, relationships, etc ????
Thinking about problems, troubles, negatives, ego issues, relationships, etc ????
Friends - i have seen normal graduates who have constant focus on what they want - being more happy and wealthy then many IIM/IIT graduates who do not focus on what they want..
Energy flows where attention goes
Do not focus on negative distractions - people, gossip, society, colleagues, friends, relatives - what they talk - what they do - what they want - STOP this - FOCUS on what YOU want. Ultimately that is what will matter.
In your 20s you worry about what people think of you
In your 30s you don’t care what people think of you
In your 40s you realize - no one was paying any attention to you anyway… and then you regret - why you paid attention to everything but what you want in life.
So, is your life a waste?
What you focus your mind on greatly determines how things play out. You can focus on your problems and dwell in suffering and a victim mentality. Or you can focus on the positive in situation, what you can learn from that situation.
It is YOUR choice. And a thought habit. You can start to build a habit of learning to gain more and more control of where you put your focus.
It is YOUR choice. And a thought habit. You can start to build a habit of learning to gain more and more control of where you put your focus.
Keep your focus steadily on what you want.
Make a resolution today - “I will stop thinking about the negative things and people in my life and have full focus on what i want in life.”.
