That is why you fail.
Friends let me share three of my favorite words of wisdom:
You could do very well in any area of your life by just focusing on these few tips. Things don't really have to be that complicated. Get these things handled reasonably well and your world opens up big time.
1. Don't try. Do.
"Do or do not... there is no try."
When you tell yourself and/or someone else that you will try you are more likely to give up or just stop when the first obstacle shows up.
When you say that you will do something there is more determination and power behind that decision. When the inevitable obstacles that always show up start to block your path you are determined. You will do this. So you find ways over, under, around and through the obstacles.
2. Overcome your fears.
"Fear is the path to the dark side. Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to suffering."
Overcoming your fears is one of the most important things to improve yourself and grow. If you don't you will just get stuck.
3. Your world is a reflection of you.
"You will get only what you think."
You find in your world what you bring into your world. And in your world you can see yourself - your thoughts and behaviours - reflected. By observing the world around you can gain insights into yourself and what you may need to improve.
You can't really see reality. You can only see Everything through a lens. And the lens is you.
Truth is life will never be as in your dreams if you don't change and correct yourself. No one is coming to save you. No book or personal development guru, not your parents - not even god. Yes, people around you can of course be a big help.
It is time to grow up and save yourself. It is time to do things. To face your fears. Not just because those things are the right things to do. But also because these things are what actually work.
You will get in life what you think and believe in.
