Wednesday, September 28, 2011

Undesired People & Situations...

People (including you) repeat the same mistakes all their life – only the extent is different – (Pl observe your action, behavior and decisions)

People are who they are and will remain what they are – at most a person can normally change is 10-20% (anything more is a bonus) - not more.

The quicker you accept this fact, the sooner you will be able to deal with all types of people & situations.


You will never find perfect people or situation.


Everyone has flaws whether they realize it or not. Look at things objectively and accept people for what they are.


Keep patience & accept the fact that...

  • Just because you think it is a good idea, others may not think it.
  • Everyone has their own way of doing things. (It is OK – if you get the desired results) You can suggest other alternates, but accept that it may not happen.
  • If you feel that you are butting heads with another person and be the bigger adult by stopping and walking away (even if it’s only for a minute). This will help all parties clear their heads.
  • Do not expect everyone to agree with your views and be willing to hear others.

Accepting People and Situations as they are - will reduce friction in your life - and smoothen your life journey.