Observe yourself - your reactions - your actions....
You will find a pattern in the tasks / people -
- for which you never get time - unless forced
- to which you react sharply & negatively
Friends - we never get time for something that we don't find Interesting, feel Involved and get Engaged.
We do not like doing things that we think don't add value to us or we don't add value to them.
We have only 2 options in life:
either stop doing what you don't like OR
start liking what you don't like.
Discover what matters most to you and then focus on that. This gives you more time to focus on what's important for you.
How???
- Delete anything that is no longer rewarding, you no longer enjoy or that no longer offer you value.
- Have little tolerance for anything that is more trouble than it's worth.
- Stop participating in activities when they no longer produce the value they once did.
- Purchase the best you can afford and never hold on to anything that takes more time to maintain than the benefit it returns.
- Constantly review your master list of things to do and filter out projects that are no longer of interest.
- Regularly review where you spend your time to determine if it is worthy of your attention.
Either like it or leave it - There is no other option in Life.