Tuesday, April 12, 2011

How to Practice Integrity???

Living a life of integrity is a daily process that’s doesn’t end until your life does. 

Here are Five ways to develop integrity...


1. Decide now, not later.  

Many people have not decided on their personal value system. They’re not sure who they are or what they stand for, and they wait until the breaking of a crisis to make their decision. At that point, it’s too late. In pressure, they take the route which is easier in that moment. Decide now what you will and will not compromise on. Then, when faced with ethical choices, the decision will have already been made.

2. Quit the rationalizations. 

You will always find a million reasons to compromise your integrity. You hear them on the news every day as corporate bigwigs struggle to justify their fat bonus checks. You can always come up with justifications that seemingly make good sense and let you sleep better at night. But at the end of the day, when you place your rationalizations on a scale next to integrity, you’ll realize you sold out something priceless - very cheap. There’s nothing more valuable than your good name and the ability to look at yourself in the mirror each day with a clear conscience.

3. Don’t take the first step. 

When a great man falls from grace, we often wonder how he could have ever messed up so royally. The truth is that he didn’t wake up one day and decide to commit an egregious blunder. It started with a little fudging here, a tiny bit of lying there. From there he just kept on sliding down the slippery slope of compromise. Don’t compromise on the little things, and you won’t on the bigger ones.

4. Don’t justify the means for the end. 

In reality, the journey towards an accomplishment or decision is just as important as the destination itself. Even if you are richly rewarded at the end, if you cannot look back on the means used to get there with anything but shame, your victory will be hollow indeed.

5. Take personal responsibility for you life. 

At the heart of integrity is the ability to own up to the fact that you are in control of your life. You are responsible for both your successes and your failures. Nobody else but you. 

Already Published...
What is Integrity??
Why live with Integrity? 
How to practice Integrity?


Next to come...
Living a life of Integrity at Work?
Living a life of Integrity in Relationships?